to the girls after me ...

So I just recently found out that women who have been dating my ex have been reading my blog. Honestly, I find it weird and just downright self annihilation on their part. I say this because I know this.

I have been one of those women who constantly stalk the ex of my current obsession or the new girl of my ex. It's not healthy. It's not right. It's not proper and truth be told, it just drives you insane because there will always be something about the other girl that will be much better than you.

I'm not saying I am better than you ladies. I am merely saying there will be something about me that you will compare yourself to which might make you go, "she's more this or that." STOP. As much as I appreciate the hits, this is really not the way to go about it.

You should get to know my ex on your own. Find out if he really is as funny as I made him out to be. Find out if he really is sweet and crazy or just plain crazy or perhaps sweet. Find out on your own who he is, what he is, what makes him tick, what makes him pissed (raising your leg on a couch when you are outside drives him nuts) and what makes him smile like the blessed fool that he is.

In short, find out on your own instead of reading up on all the write ups I have of him on this blog. The write ups here are things he did for me, the way he treated me, the way he was with me, and what we did together. It was about ME and WE. It is not you, it is not the both of you.

So please, stop.

Get to know him for him and not as whatever code he has on my blog. This guy that I wrote about on my blog, the sweet, understanding, loving, caring, never will he hurt me man IS GONE. He no longer exists.

The guy you have now is someone who has grown from being with me. He may be sweeter or not as sweet but one thing I am sure of is that HE IS NO LONGER THE FUNNY MAN.

He is not the guy that has been written on my blog. He is not the man that I dated and fell in love with. All that you read here now are just my memories of him so unless you want to date and fall in love with a memory, STOP READING MY BLOG.

Thank you and good luck.