Sunday, December 5, 2010

cheers to singledom

"You don't seem anything like the girl that you described. Based on what I'm seeing now, you've come a long way in such a short time."

This is the essence of what someone just told me recently during a conversation about how I was like before when I would fall in love and why I am a tad bit wary of falling in love again. He was pretty surprised that I told him that I used to be possessive, whiny, and centered on the guy that I was with. He said that from what he sees, I am the type of girl who knows what she wants, gets it, and if things don't go my way, then I'd say "there goes that, move on!"

I was amazed. I was so surprised that he could not imagine that I used to be like that based on what he sees now. (This friend of mine is someone I met less than a month ago.) He made me realize that in just 6 months, I have been able to turn myself around.

Where I used to be whiny, I am now able to hold back negative thoughts from time to time and just go with the flow. Where I used to be possessive, I am now able to accept that the only person I truly own is myself. I do not own anyone, not my future partner nor my son. I only own me. Now isn't this something for someone who used to panic when my ex would not text me back asap. LOL.

I may have made some leaps but I still have mountains to conquer. I am still not whole as a person but I am getting there ... and when I do ... when I am ready ... the person who will be my other half would be so lucky for I am complete and I am capable of loving him 100% without losing me. Till then ... I say, so many men, so little time.

Cheers to being single!


  1. I agree with the opening quote. ;)

  2. Thanks Mike! At least someone agrees and you have known me for a long time ...

  3. I am Lenna LIddon, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank BALAYA for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found ( ) a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. two days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 3 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. BALAYA released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my fiance is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to BALAYA for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. email him on;


Hi! Let's all try to add more positivity in this world and adhere to the saying, "if you don't have anything nice to say, keep silent."

Showering you with unicorn poop so you'd always stay magical! Heart heart!