Friday, May 29, 2015

the hypocrite

So sometime last year, I met this guy and we went out once. Yes, ONCE.

We had dinner at Solaire and then afterwards, we hanged out and had coffee. It was actually a pretty good date. I found him interesting and he was good looking. Unfortunately, he forgot to inform me at the beginning and middle of the date one significant detail.

He had a girlfriend. Yep, it seems that my misfortune with men was still an ongoing thing. To sum it up, I never saw him again after that night.

Fast forward to a couple of months ago and this guy happens to find me on Facebook. He added me as a friend and I figured, there really is no harm if I also added him back and so I did. Two months later he messages me and asks me out. I asked about the girlfriend and he tells me they have broken up and he thought long and hard and he realized that he wanted to pursue me.

I'd have to be lying if I don't admit that I felt good about the idea of having him pursue me but I wanted to take it slow with this person. Besides, I have learned to keep my options open and so I was going out with other guys since I wasn't in any kind of commitment with anyone.

And so it happened ... we text, we Vibered, he would call and we'd talk. One day he asked me if I was dating other guys and I said yes. Take note that he and I, we've never gone out on an actual date at this point of the conversation. He then asked me why I was dating other guys and so I said that I was single and I could technically date anyone I wanted.

He replies, "so you're a slut!"


He then goes on to rant about what kind of a woman I was and how it would look because he wanted me to be the mother of his child. FOR REAL? I was so shocked because this is all coming from a guy who cheated on his girlfriend and tricked me as well into going out with him.

The nerve of this guy!

Suffice to say that we no longer speak to each other. It's just annoying how some guys are so double standard on things. He can cheat and be a good person and I simply go out on dates with different guys and I'm a bad woman. Sheesh. Men like him, they need to be tied to a tree naked with soldier ants crawling all over him.

Now that would be awesome.


  1. Wow! The boldness of some people fascinate me.

  2. A sense of entitlement is what he has. Women should all be pure, but he can do what he likes. Run, don't walk, run away.

  3. WOW! That was quite an experience. Guys are often like that, they think they're the only ones who are allowed to explore their options. I'm sorry you had to experience that.

  4. Ughhh some guys just drive me nuts!!! So sorry you had to deal
    With that!

  5. I can so relate to this post. I am going through something similar to this right now.

  6. I am so sad to hear about your experienced. I hate hypocrites!

  7. What a jerk! Obviously this would have been the type of guy who thought it would be fine to go out with his buddies and have a drink but if you went out with your girlfriends for anything, oh no! That can't happen. So, it's a good thing you found that out before the two of you got serious.

  8. That is crazy! People like that usually get what they deserve in the end.

  9. Oh wow…yes, that guy has A LOT of nerve. I can't believe he said that to you…and I'd be very suspicious about a nut job that is already dreaming of having kids with someone they met relatively recently.

  10. Yep, he is definitely subscribing to a major double standard. Probably a good thing you left him alone, though, since he obviously doesn't value relationships. If he dated you while he was in a relationship, that says something.

  11. I am so sorry to hear about your experience. What a lame guy!


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