So sometime last year, I met this guy and we went out once. Yes, ONCE.
We had dinner at Solaire and then afterwards, we hanged out and had coffee. It was actually a pretty good date. I found him interesting and he was good looking. Unfortunately, he forgot to inform me at the beginning and middle of the date one significant detail.
He had a girlfriend. Yep, it seems that my misfortune with men was still an ongoing thing. To sum it up, I never saw him again after that night.
Fast forward to a couple of months ago and this guy happens to find me on Facebook. He added me as a friend and I figured, there really is no harm if I also added him back and so I did. Two months later he messages me and asks me out. I asked about the girlfriend and he tells me they have broken up and he thought long and hard and he realized that he wanted to pursue me.
I'd have to be lying if I don't admit that I felt good about the idea of having him pursue me but I wanted to take it slow with this person. Besides, I have learned to keep my options open and so I was going out with other guys since I wasn't in any kind of commitment with anyone.
And so it happened ... we text, we Vibered, he would call and we'd talk. One day he asked me if I was dating other guys and I said yes. Take note that he and I, we've never gone out on an actual date at this point of the conversation. He then asked me why I was dating other guys and so I said that I was single and I could technically date anyone I wanted.
He replies, "so you're a slut!"
He then goes on to rant about what kind of a woman I was and how it would look because he wanted me to be the mother of his child. FOR REAL? I was so shocked because this is all coming from a guy who cheated on his girlfriend and tricked me as well into going out with him.
The nerve of this guy!
Suffice to say that we no longer speak to each other. It's just annoying how some guys are so double standard on things. He can cheat and be a good person and I simply go out on dates with different guys and I'm a bad woman. Sheesh. Men like him, they need to be tied to a tree naked with soldier ants crawling all over him.
Now that would be awesome.