Monday, December 8, 2008

blood is thicker than water

Truly, blood is thicker than water. This has been proven again today when H's father got all uppity and said words to me. Words that I never thought he would say.

I am glad he did. Now, I can really sever all ties with them. B will never set foot in their house. B will never know them except as memories. Call me a bad person, but everything that I've endured is just too much.

I pawned all my jewelries to pay for house and other things because he did not have money.
I have been cheated on.
I met the girl I was cheated with because he thought it was a good idea for us to meet.
I have been hurt physically, not just once.
I endured being told he did not love me anymore because I still loved him.
I have been insulted and insulted over again because I gained weight and did not lose it after giving birth.
I have been asked to do things one should never ever do.
I've knelt and asked forgiveness even when it is not my fault.
I've been kicked out of the house several times and begged to be allowed to stay.
I fell off a bus and he did not check on me immediately because he was attending a basketball game.
I was misled right from the very start of this so called relationship.

I accepted all this because of love. I refuse to be treated this way ever again. Nobody should ever be treated this way. I was an idiot. Please do not be an idiot.

So yes, blood is thicker than water. That's okay. I have my family too. Our blood is thicker coz we're real people, not people pretending to be good, perfect, and God fearing. We're humans and that makes us better people.


  1. I'm glad you're not with him and his family anymore. Sounds awful. You deserve better.

  2. Thank you ... I'm glad I finally woke up ... hehe


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