For the last two days, I have slowly weeded out the men in my life. Well, technically they are not really mine since I only flirt with them from time to time but I had an epiphany and I realized that I need to stop this serial dating thing. It's not going anywhere and I am wasting time.
I made a decision. I will develop me as me ... as a Mom, as a friend, as a daughter, as an employee, as a sister. I will make me better and I do not need men to make me feel good and better.
If I want to watch a movie, I have my friends and family. If not, I have me, myself, and I. If I need to go to a wedding, I can bring my little sister or get my best gay friend. If I need to shop, that's what girl friends are for, or better, my Mom.
And if I need to feel good about myself and need some "male" companionship, I have the best man already (aside from my Dad that is.) I have him.
I already have the best man. What more could I ask for?
You got yourself a keeper there! :)ReplyDelete
Well, yes, maybe serial dating can take a backseat for now, but don't entirely close your doors to the possibility of a newfound love :)
Absolutely wonderful and inspirational!ReplyDelete
Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed the visit. :)
@ pepper: Nah. I already found someone. I just need to wait for him to be ready.ReplyDelete
@ fresh garden: thank you! do drop by anytime.