the only man in my life

For the last two days, I have slowly weeded out the men in my life. Well, technically they are not really mine since I only flirt with them from time to time but I had an epiphany and I realized that I need to stop this serial dating thing. It's not going anywhere and I am wasting time.

I made a  decision. I will develop me as me ... as a Mom, as a friend, as a daughter, as an employee, as a sister. I will make me better and I do not need men to make me feel good and better.

If I want to watch a movie, I have my friends and family. If not, I have me, myself, and I. If I need to go to a wedding, I can bring my little sister or get my best gay friend. If I need to shop, that's what girl friends are for, or better, my Mom.

And if I need to feel good about myself and need some "male" companionship, I have the best man already (aside from my Dad that is.) I have him.

I already have the best man. What more could I ask for?

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  1. You got yourself a keeper there! :)
    Well, yes, maybe serial dating can take a backseat for now, but don't entirely close your doors to the possibility of a newfound love :)

  2. Absolutely wonderful and inspirational!
    Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed the visit. :)

  3. @ pepper: Nah. I already found someone. I just need to wait for him to be ready.

    @ fresh garden: thank you! do drop by anytime.