So here's a list of things that I think should never be missing from a man's behavior when they are with women. And ladies, say THANK YOU. Don't be rude as well and act as if you had the right to be treated as such. Remember, a lady to be treated like a lady, must act like a lady.
- opening the door ... I know it's not heavy but it would be really nice to have someone hold it for you especially if you're carrying a lot of things and not have to have your face carved or imprinted on a door
- offering your seat in a bus, LRT, MRT ... seriously ... don't even offer it to a pretty lady ... but to that old man or woman ... would it really kill you to stand and let an older person sit?
- carrying a woman's heavy load ... don't carry her teeny tiny lil handbag but if she has more than 2 bags already and what have you, then take it ...
- opening the car door ... its something simple ... you just need to go around ... just a lil effort
- pulling the chair when dining ... don't do this at a fastfood resto ... only when you're at a restaurant
- going on the not so safe side when crossing the street
- standing up when being introduced to a girl
- offering your hand instead of the customary beso when first introduced
- paying for the bill ... I know you talk about being practical and all but really .... IF YOU DO NOT HAVE MONEY, DO NOT ASK A GIRL OUT!
- taking a girl home after gimmick ... fine, it seems sweet when done in the movies how the girl is whisked away in a yellow cab but really, what do you think is the girl feeling afterwards when she's alone?
- offering to pick her up ... enough of the lets meet somewhere crap ...
- flowers ... one lil long stemmed rose goes a long long way
I hold the door for people when I can. I don't expect a thank you every time, but I think people are rude when they don't say anything -- like it's your job to hold the door for them or something.
ReplyDeletesorry I don't agree with u on the line..."paying for the bill ... I know you talk about being practical and all but really .... IF YOU DO NOT HAVE MONEY, DO NOT ASK A GIRL OUT"!
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