loving yourself

I got a comment from a certain Trick or Tricia in this post poking fun at my huge arms. I'm not sure if it's meant to be funny or nasty but seriously, it striked me as being nasty. This was the comment.

" Trick, aka Tricia said...
Wow. I can hardly see the bag! The picture's all "arms, arms, arms"!!! Reminds me of the movie "Over The Top".

I don't understand how other people put others down just so they would feel better about themselves. It's stupid. And pitiful to be honest. People who do this kind of thing is just plain miserable and they need to make other people feel miserable so that they would feel better about themselves or the way they look.

Unfortunately for you Trick aka Tricia, you didn't put me down. Right now I am watching Tyra Banks Show and they're talking about the exact same thing. So I say to you what Tyra says to people like you.

Honey, you can kiss my fat ass.

Coz I am beautiful and fabulous the way that I am. My decision to lose my baby weight is so that I would live longer for my beautiful son. And it will never be because of people like you. You will never be good enough for anyone because you are far too miserable to be really happy. People like you will never find what they are looking for because you're too busy putting others down. No one will ever like you for real, because behind your back, they do the exact same thing. I pity you.

I may be fat but I have people who love me for me, flabs and all. I have people who support me and look beyond the physical. Do you? I know you don't. If you did, you wouldn't be doing the things you do.

So ladies, don't ever let someone like Trick put you down. You are beautiful in your own way. Love yourself. Love your body. And tell me, WHY ARE YOU BEAUTIFUL?

And to support that, here's a recipe for some yummy food to be enjoyed by you and your family.

Chicken Puffs (click on it to enlarge and read recipe)