not so funny after all ...

* this happened March 7, 2012

6 dates ...
6 different days ...
6 different places ...
Two people ... two strangers who never should have met, did.

Funny man (FM for short) and I have gone out six times. Always, the places we go to are not what you would call hang out places for friends and the last time we went out, I ended up meeting his family.

Finally right? No. On the way home, I had the courage to ask him what this was about. Well, fine, I didn't ask him but what I did ask was that if he was dating other girls and he finally gave me an answer which was something that went like this.

"Oh, we're friends right? Its nothing for me to bring lady friends to my house. I always do that. It's not a big deal. If you're asking if I'm interested in you romantically, no, I'm not. We're friends. Didn't I tell you that I just wanna meet new people?"

So, he answered. I wish he hadn't.

I was mortified. I was hurt. I was sad. I felt led on. I felt like he was part two of the previous guy I went out with ... yes, that K guy. FM it seems is just kitkat part 2.

Of course I didn't show him what I really felt. Why would I right? He doesn't need to know. He shouldn't know.

So, after 6 dates ...
6 different days ...
6 different places ...
Two people ... two strangers who never should have met, did.

One of them went home that night and slept soundly.
One of them went home that night and cried herself to sleep.
It seems the funny man wasn't so funny after all.

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38 comments:

  1. and by the way, if i were in your situation, i would tell him, "yes, we're friends. and i never want to see you again."

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  2. Aww.. sorry about this achie Kay. Anyway, just keep your distance from him for the mean time. From what you've shared with me last Monday, the funny man is confused.. >.<

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  3. Ouch! Ang sakit naman...

    Yun ang mahirap. Yung feeling mo, merong something special between the two of you. But then, after 6 dates..6 days..6 places.. Masyadong po tayong nag-expect eh. Nag-assume. I think it's not entirely his fault.. Don't get me wrong. I'm just saying..

    It's better you know na, ngayon palang. At least, narealize mo na walang patutunguhang iba ang relasyon nyo.. kundi pure friendship. Cheer up.. :)

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    1. Tama ka. I expected din kasi. If I hadn't, di ako mjasasaktan diba?

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  4. Kenny, is this the guy last time in Shaw? Checked your other posts and I think it is him. :( I'm so sad and sorry to hear (read) this. I know this would be a cliched thing to say, but it's really true: It's his loss! ...But you'll get through this. I know you will.

    www.iamaileen.com

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  5. aray.. kawawa nman...ganyan ba tlaga ang mga babae..?? ahwp..hehehe

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  6. Oh no! bakit naman ganyan si funny man! so selfish of him.. ;( ay naku marami pa dyan! don't stop dating!! go go go!! ;)

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  7. Aynakow! Sa ganda mong yan mam, marami ka pang mame-meet! Wish you more dates to come, but less hurt. :)

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  8. What an A!
    Guys doesn't need to people that they always bring people others!
    Well at least you're informed early on..
    At least you've seen that side of him!
    insensitive!

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  9. wow, tagos! sakit. @_@
    selfish talaga si funny man.

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  10. Could it be that Funny Man is a little insensitive? He doesn't deserve you gurl so cheer up! Show him what he just let go!

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  11. not sure if my first comment went through but don't cry coz he's not worth it, don't loose faith in love...mr. right will come but don't waste time looking for him instead use the time to make polish yourself...

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  12. ownow!! Don't worry, you'll get someone who is interested na with you to be his better half. Sending my hugs to you.. Cheer up!

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  13. I don't know funny man but judging on how I saw you guys last week, looks like you two are compatible naman. I think he just needs to sort things out baka nagfifishing pa. Hope you guys can settle it rin.

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  14. tsk tsk.. dont stop dating! :)

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  15. That was sad--- but anyway...there's still a loy of fish in the sea,...

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  16. Thanks everyone. This happened March 7. A lot of things has happened since then and I shall blog about it when its good and ready.

    Yes, he was an A and I was hurt but lets see how you'll all react to the next few chapters (chapters talaga o?)

    Pero super thank you ... I can feel the love coming from all of you. MWAH! Love niyo ko talaga.

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  17. nge, i don't know how to react. why waste time? drop him. he clearly doesn't know what to do with you or with himself. he's crap.

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  18. ;(

    ayyyyy..ba't ganun? really sad.. ;(

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  19. i guess 6 is not the number for you after all. keep going and who knows...

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  20. Good riddance. He sounded like a jerk! Insensitive sya.

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  21. Sheeeeesh. I don't know what to say. :( His loss.

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  22. Ms Kay. i really thought everything is going smoothly between the two of you! Gosh I'm disappointed also upon reading this post. Cheer up! Can't wait to read the next *chapters! :)

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  23. Gosh. I can relate.

    I hate guys who are too sweet and in the end they withdraw it. I told a guy before that we shouldn't meet and that to stop to be too sweet because I'm falling. He also told me that, that I should not fall because he don't want to be more than friends. After we stop seeing each other, he's coming after me.... sorry, but i don't eat what I just did vomit.

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  24. Aw. This breaks my heart too! I can relate somehow. Maybe the right thing to do is give him space and enjoy without him muna. Believe me it's fun! GV. Smile :)

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  25. Ouch! And sharp mag salita ni Funny Man, insensitive masyado ha! I cna relate cos Ive been with a guy that used to be insensitive but luckily I changed that bad attitude and opened his eyes that he should think first before he speak. Tnx for the share! :)

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  26. I should say goodbye to a funny man now. wala naman palang feeling sa iyo .try meeting another guy na lang and you will find the right one for you .foreigner ,dating sites ,i suggest.

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  27. He could have been more sensitive with his words. =( Nonetheless, the good thing is that you're able to see who really is. Even if we don't personally know each other, I know that you're definitely worthy of someone better - someone who's a true gentleman.

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  28. ouch....,

    it's alright if you have been hurt right away, although harsh man ang pagkasabi niya, pero at least nalaman mo rin agad kesa tumagal pa...., smile, someone else will come, and maybe he'll be much better than him....

    cheer up!

    Ur an apex hunter, keep that in mind

    :)

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  29. Awww. That's sad. But at least, you got to ask him early on rather than getting hurt if the feeling goes deeper.

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  30. ouch!..hehehe..okay lang yan..
    kaya ako I dont assume eh..like kahit na yung mga friends ko tease me and whoever that person..as long na walang sinasabi..kahit we go on dates..wala akong ine-expect..
    siguro ganun na talaga perception ko..i always bear in mind na because your dating..may tukso tukso and all my something na..

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  31. Well, at least give the guy an A...for anesty. :)) But really, better get the truth out early than have it unravel after you have emotionally invested in the person.

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