To my delight, the last few months has seen an increase in new releases of Adult Coloring Books. Yes, you read that right. They now have coloring book for adults and the signs are very intricate and detail oriented. This one also encourages people to be more colorful in what pencils they use and even blend, shade, and what not.
I was INITIALLY happy about this. However, as with any "trend" people started getting into it, even people who we know deep in their hearts are not coloristas (people who love to color.) I joined several groups and was really happy to see how supportive people were of each others work. However, there were a few things that I kept seeing posted that really got to me and they are the following:
- My work is not that good. I feel horrible about it.
- I messed up the leaf. Oh woe is me.
- I hope my partner doesn't see my latest loot of pens and books.
- How come my photo doesn't gather as much likes as the rest?
- *insert photo of hundreds of pens* Oh I still need a lot. I only have a few.
Seriously people? Coloring is supposed to be about relaxing, having fun, and bringing back the inner child in you. We don't want the insecure, stressed, and whiny competitive you ruining it for us. I feel that because there have been too many materials, books, and groups, people just managed to find a new way to dump their emotional baggage and insecurities on something that is supposed to be lovely, stress RELIEVING, and wonderful.
Coloring is supposed to be magical. It is not about "I did better than you did" or "Oh you have more than I do" or even worse, a reason for partners to fight. When you find yourself hiding things from your partner because of coloring, when you find yourself stressing because your work is not pretty enough or good enough, and when you find yourself stressing because you do not have this so and so set of pens, STOP COLORING.
It's supposed to be relaxing so if it is not relaxing you, then perhaps you need to find another "hobby" or rather, "obsession." As for the rest of us, lets stay chill, calm, and keep coloring away.
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