I realize something. When I don't demand, I get what I want.
See, I have this ugly characteristic. I am very, very demanding. I demand things and when I do, I expect it to happen. I get mad when it doesn't happen. I get very spiteful when it doesn't.
Lately though, I have learned to not demand so much. I am learning to not demand actually. And you know what? It's more effective. I realized that when I don't force people, when they get to do what they want, they tend to want to see me more, to be with me more.
I guess its true what they say; less is more. =)
I can be quite demanding too. It's sometimes funny and ironic how things turn out.ReplyDelete
Reminds me of my kids. I tend to get them things when they don't ask me every five minutes at the store.ReplyDelete