I feel guilty coz I got some stuff for myself ... I guess it is ingrained in Mothers to thrift themselves and save instead ... and spend money on baby and other necessities. But I want to refute that. I think it's wrong.
Don't get me wrong ... we have some savings, and now I feel that I deserve to get some stuff for myself as well. I don't wanna be like the Mom's that I read about who get so fed up spending on others or nurturing others and neglecting themselves that one day, they wake up and BAM! they leave without turning back.
I want to take care of my family and yet, take care of myself as well. Nothing bad about that right?