Sometimes, you just need to allow people to be wrong.
When people judge you without getting to know you, let them. Don't exert effort to correct them in their preconceived notion of who and what you are. Let them be wrong.
When people say bad things about you without any basis just because someone else said so, let them. Don't beat yourself up with their opinion that you know has no basis. Let them be wrong.
When people break friendships because they believed someone without verifying with you first, let them. It may hurt because you are already invested but if they don't think your friendship worthy of being fought for, don't fight for it either. Let them be wrong.
When someone you love breaks your heart for no good reason or because they think you did them wrong, let them. When someone has decided they are done, it's never a good idea to beg and force them to stay. Even if you love them, let them be wrong.
Let people be wrong. It won't take away anything from you because you know you. You know your value, you know your worth, and most of all, you know the truth.
You know what you are capable of, what you did, what you didn't do, and what you can become and achieve so let them be wrong. Let them think what they want and continue to be great.
Let them be wrong. Eventually, they will realize that all along, you were right and they were wrong.
interesting concepts there. Yes, you can let them be wrong, but I also think it's important to set the record straight, especially if want to know you. Thanks - good read
ReplyDeleteI like "let people be wrong." Sometimes it's not worth your energy proving someone wrong.
ReplyDeleteI love your post! Life is too short to focus on pleasing others or making other people feel right.
ReplyDeleteI needed this SO MUCH today, thank you.
ReplyDeleteVery much agree with you. We must love our instinct and belief in ourselves. People cannot just point out faults and be wrong, let them be. Nice article.
ReplyDeleteI am using this approach more and more every day and it has helped me a lot. We dpn't need to please all the people and we know our worth.
ReplyDeleteYou are right. I learnt it hard way....!
ReplyDeleteYes, I couldn't agree more! Let people be wrong. Okay, not related to this topic. I searched Ian Veneracion (Gosh, he is so handsome😍) on Google tonight and saw your image with him with a headline, you are his wife 😛😄Even a YouTube video thumbnail with your picture in it, who is she? 😁😁 For a sec, I thought it was true😉
ReplyDeleteWish I was Ian's wife but it was a mistake that the editors of the magazine who printed it wouldn't correct so I let them be wrong hahaha. Online, I am his "wife" hahahaha.
Deleteyes totoo yan. let them be wrong even though he/she thinks tama sya. Its okay to break friendships kung toxic na sya. ;)
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