There's always a silver lining after a storm. I think that's how the saying goes. After a month of storm, I can now say that I see the sun starting to shine. I have my family back and I am secured once more. This does not mean that I will take the security I have for granted. To some it may sound superficial and maybe it is but I feel that I need to do this.
Men are indeed visual creatures and when the person that they spend most of their time with is no longer that appealing, they will tend to look elsewhere. Hence, I'll do my best to make sure that if he does look another way, he will find it very hard to do so. I have to admit that I have let go of my appearance for the past 2 years or so, always thinking that he loves me for what I am and can accept that I am a massive blob.
Unfortunately, this is the real world and my Prince Charming is able to find other Princesses or Wiked Witches I should say. And in this real world, women have to take care of their looks, hence risking the fact that their own Prince Charming may be wooed away by the Wicked Witch of the West.
Lesson learned for me and I hope it will be a wake up call to all the woman out there. Yes, you may not be married to someone who values physical as well as what is inside. Yes, you may be married to someone who swears you are the only one. My question though is, are you willing to risk the possibility of your Prince findng someone simple because you do not have time to look good for him? I would suggest that you do not do that. Or if it sounds superficial ... think of it this way. When we go to parties or functions, we make an effort to look good right? Can we not do the same for our own Prince?