Finding My Person

They say you must keep the flame alive, inside and outside the bedroom when married. This 14th, I will be 3 years married to my husband and I'm happy that we have managed to do this together. It's not just a one-sided thing too. My husband makes an equal effort to spend time with me and date me, even if it's just around our village. 

Today, we went out to watch a movie that I've wanted to watch. Normally, we watch movies he likes but not mine. I raised this with him and he promised to change this. When I asked if we could watch Rewind, he gladly said yes. 

Rewind is a family movie that every couple needs to watch. I was so glad that I wasn't able to relate to the situation because my husband and I still talk, kiss each other, make time for each other, and don't take each other for granted. 

We also seldom fight now. Occasionally, we would have a spat but most of the time, we can now talk things out. It wasn't always that way, especially at the beginning but six years down we have improved in our communication and in handling things. 

I love that our focus is making sure our marriage works so that our family works. I'm so happy that finally, I found my person and he has found me.