and we thought we knew people

I just learned something shocking today. I learned that a friend of mine who I fondly called Mojica is one of the biggest pathological liar ever. He apparently had a girlfriend of 8 years which I never knew existed. We were friends and I never knew this. I knew he had a girlfriend of 2 years who he lived with but apparently this was a different girl.

What irks me the most is that he used me to get another girl. I backed him up and then I learn that he got married to the gf of 8 years a month after the new girl agreed to go steady with him. OMG! The sheer nerve. He's not even handsome to boot. He's not handsome, he's not that smart, and he is a LIAR. Ugh!

If I see this so called friend of mine, I will slap him; for his betrayal of me and for his betrayal of this girl. He deserves it. I hope his wife finds out. Guys like him should be casatrated.

Gggrrrrr ....

Dude, I hope your wife realizes what an ass you are. Pity the girl you married for she married a liar.

peed on the potty !!!

B finally peed on the potty! YEY!

a time to love

When is it right to fall in love again? When can you say that you are in love? When do you proclaim love on someone else? Is there a set rules that needs to be followed? Is there a guideline that one can peruse to see if she is right or wrong?

Do you know the answers to this question?

i lost weight?

This juice thingy has been my savior over the holidays. Amidst all the pigging out, almost two weeks of no work, and constant celebrations ... I LOST WEIGHT. Lol ...

I heard everyone saying that they gained weight and when I took the weighting scale, I lost 5lbs. Hahahahaha! It's not much but I lost it over the holidays. It's a start and I plan to lose a lot more this year. For real.

I'd even track it if I could fing that ticker thingie. Hehe ... this is not a new years resolution bdw. This is something that I will do. =p

back on track

Things are back on track. All questions have been answered and there are no more left in my mind. I have laid down my bed and I will lie in it. Should it turn out that the bed I am lying in is not made of roses but thorns, nails, and broken glass ... I will get off and find another one. For now, I choose to lie on the bed and believe that it is made of roses, cotton candy, and all good things.

ignorance is bliss

This is not true. This is only true when you are TOTALLY ignorant of what is happening; if you really have NO IDEA whatsoever of the things that are happening. Ignorance is bliss only when it is true.

When you have an inkling that there might be something wrong, ignorance is not bliss. It will always come knocking on the side of your head, on the peripherals of your mind. Yeah, you may push it away but it will come back to haunt you. How long can you pretend to be ignorant? How long before it starts bogging you down?

How can you say ignorance is bliss if you're not really ignorant of what is happening?

burning bridges

Tonight, I might burn one of the most important bridge that I have built in my life. I am scared; scared out of my wits. Yet I need to do this. I need to know the answers to my questions even if it hurts me a lot. I need to know the answers because I need to understand why things happened the way they did. I need to understand so that I could let go.

I hope that I won't be burning a bridge tonight. I hope I will be rebuilding one.

am I a station or a destination?

Life is like riding a train. There are many twists and turns, left and right, ups and downs, and some dark tunnels that you need to go through. Some people choose to stop at certain stations without reaching the final destination. Some choose to finish it and find out what is at the end.

At times, we take a wrong turn and end up in the wrong place. Sometimes, we hurt the people we love who are waiting for us at the end when this happens. Still, we can backtrack and go back to where we are supposed to be.

At times, we go off the wrong station and stay there thinking that we are at the right one. We think that this is the end of it and then eventually realize that we were wrong.

At the end of the day ... we all want to reach our destination. We all want to be home. The big question is ... are you a station or are you his destination?

Post Secret Sharing # 1

I have posted a lot of cards here from Postsecret whenever one touches me or is something that I can relate. I wanna spread the word about this blog because it has helped me in ways that it will never know. To start the year ... these are the two cards that I am able to relate to.

The first one is about finding someone, be it a friend or more, that just feels right when you're together. Someone who feels like home. I'm glad to have met another person who feels just like this. I hope this person stays for the rest of my life.


As for this one, everyday, I am going forward and moving on. Everyday, I am healing more. I have realized that though I may not have been perfect, I deserve far far better. Good riddance to you!

munimuni # 30

This is my first WR for 2009. It's been 4 days and if the first 4 days of this year is an indication of how the year will be, then I am going to have a really fantastic 2009. So far, it has been peaceful and happy ... some quirks here and there but overall, I have spent it with people that I love and people who love me.

B got a lil bit sick but is still as bubbly as ever. Don't worry. He is okay. =p

Tomorrow is back to work day but I am excited about being busy again and juggling things. I want to try new things and build strong relationships. I want to grow as a person and learn more.

This year, I want to be a better me so that I can be a better person to the people who loves me.

vegetarian I am not

I will probably get the ire of the PETA people but I really am not a vegetarian. I cannot live without my meat. I tried the famous Mushroom Burger of Tagaytay and though the taste was most likely really good due to the fact that it was a full house, I was not impressed.

I felt the that there was something missing from the burger and I really can't say that it was the meat. There was just something missing.

Still, hats off to vegetarians. Unfortunately, this is one gal who needs to have her meat.

Tagaytay Trip

My family and I went to Tagaytay today to spend some time with my Grandpa and Grandma who are going back to the province after being here for more than 2 weeks. Here are some pics from the trip.

what's in store for me for 2009 ...

As a Scorpio ...

Two Sides of the Same CoinIn 2009, be prepared for surprises, the likes of which you've never seen before. Each surprise will be like the proverbial two-sided coin. You'll be doing a lot of work in seclusion, but you'll do it so well that everyone will know about it. You'll make more money than you have in a long time, but you won't be able to think of anything you want to spend it on. You just might find your dream home, but you'll be either too busy or too tired to enjoy it. And in spite of the fact that you'll be playing the role of the solitary workaholic, you'll receive more social invitations than you ever dreamed of.

As a person born in the Year of the Monkey ...

Chinese horoscope for Monkey Monkeys will enjoy a good goodwill and rapport with everyone around. Apart from this, the monkeys will have a stable love relationship in 2009. This year the monkeys will have lots of wealth owing to the presence of the second luckiest star in their zodiac.
Monkeys are born in spring and summer will have new opportunities in every sphere of life. As far as love is concerned for the monkeys, 2009 will not be too good with relationships getting complex. Male monkeys are likely to get involve in flirting and two-timing and will therefore face hardships. Female monkeys need to show their skills in keeping their love interest with themselves by fighting against other temptresses.

The monkeys, who want a steady relationship, should take care of their partners with undemanding love and care. If love relationship is not handled with care, chances are high for them to even have a bad effect on career of many monkeys.

Monkeys need to be extremely careful according to the Chinese astrology in the first half of the year. They should avoid any kind of gossip. Monkeys born in winter and autumn will have some bad luck this year. As far as career is concerned, monkeys will see a growth on the basis of their hard work and not luck.

August, November and December will prove special for many monkeys in 2009. This year sincere efforts of the monkeys will be rewarded at work bringing in financial benefits. If Monkeys concern hard on fulfilling their dreams, no one would be able to stop them from achieving that in 2009. Overall, 2009 will be a year of mixes for the monkey in all aspects.

Overall, I just need to be tenacious, gorgeous, relentless, and determined to get what I want for 2009. Coolness!

For those who want to know what's in store for them, go here.

NY meal ...

butterscoth brownie with chocolate ganache

Above and below are some picture of what we had for NY's eve. Again, it was my lil brother who cooked this sumptuous meal. The great thing about this was that we were really complete. My other lil brother was with us unlike Xmas eve. Whee!!!

This is a calamansi pie. No, it was not sour at all. It was tangy sweet. Really good stuff. Best part is that it is my own lil brother's recipe. Coolness huh?

B was scared of the fireworks at first but eventually got over it. Brave lil boy is what he is. He also kept dancing which was really cute and funny. We had some money hunt to promote wealth for this new year and it was so much fun seeing everyone going loco over looking for some coins and bills.

2009 will be with my precious gems

These are the people who I plan to keep in my life in 2009 and in the coming years. They have been there for me through thick and thin and I know that they will be there come what may. Happy new year to all of us! I love you guys and I am so thankful that you are in my life.















These are the people who's opinion truly matters. Good tidings to us all. =)