tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949086196521623904.post3316756621187426685..comments2024-03-26T15:00:47.717+08:00Comments on Life is Kulayful ... : to tell or not to tellKathy Balmoreshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04521736763389163485noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949086196521623904.post-62037344631968047992009-01-26T13:17:00.000+08:002009-01-26T13:17:00.000+08:00It'll depend on how much the other person means to...It'll depend on how much the other person means to me, what exactly the secret is, and how the preson will probably react.Kenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16857376251149003952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949086196521623904.post-79165374604534350852009-01-22T22:39:00.000+08:002009-01-22T22:39:00.000+08:00Sometimes it's so hard to make a decision especial...Sometimes it's so hard to make a decision especially if it might upset someone close to us. It is always best to weigh the positive and negative side of every decision. If the positive side outweighs the negative, then you can start considering it. Wishing you the best.Heart of Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07542152478039483575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949086196521623904.post-25229186812734721352009-01-22T19:10:00.000+08:002009-01-22T19:10:00.000+08:00I've always tried to be straight forward with thin...I've always tried to be straight forward with things, the way I see it is that it's better that my loved ones know even if they don't approve because one day I might need their support. If they know whats going on in my life it's easier for them to understand and accept the situation should I need their help one day. <BR/><BR/>My sister did it the other way around, she didn't tell and she put a lot of effort in keeping her secret. In return she didn't get help and support when she desperately needed it because people in her life didn't know and understand how much she needed them. As much as we disapproved of her choice that time we would still have helped her and supported her since we care about her. <BR/><BR/>You say that you are not used to hiding things, so please don't change now. What you can do is decide <B>how</B> you tell it and how you put your words. The presentation of it all can make a huge difference. Think it over and find a way to explain how desperate you are and why it's so important to you, it could help with the reaction of the person that you want to tell it to.<BR/><BR/><B>Good Luck!</B>Kadri Luikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10737576663295161881noreply@blogger.com