Wednesday, August 31, 2016

we don't talk anymore ...

I happened upon this photo on Facebook.


We don't talk anymore. I once loved you and yet, we don't talk anymore. I wonder why and then I remembered ... 

... you told me you fell in love with your first love again and broke my heart. 

... we were too scared to cross the line between friends and lovers so we stopped talking. 

... you fell in love with my best friend and lied about it. 

... you were too much of a coward to fight for us. 

... you saw me dead and I saw myself alive. 

... you fell in love with your idea of me and not the real me. 

... you were not worthy of my efforts and I have come to realize my value. 

To friends I don't speak to, I remembered ... 

... you were just pretending to be a friend. 

... you used me. 

... you slept with the guy I was dating. 

... you and I have strong opinions about the same thing and we just can't deal with it. 

And so, we don't talk anymore and I hope we never do again. 

21 comments:

  1. Hmm..very thought provoking. The second line is a spot-on. Some men are too coward or too torpe..and that ended the wonderful conversations and even friendship. Sad but true.

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  2. Wow. I think it's all about people go into relationships without thinking things through. If someone is n a relationship and they're tempted by another, the person they're cheating on should never feel as though they're to blame. It's the cheater who cheats because their unhappy with who they are. Okay, they may not like their partner for whatever reasons, but the hate themselves for choosing their partners incorrectly. Even though cheating is wrong, it makes them feel like they're finding happiness; however, in the long run they become even more unhappy.

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  3. This is ring true for my son and how his ex -fiance treated him. She called of the wedding with no reason.

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  4. I felt so related,this has happened to me a couple of times..it's so sad

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  5. That is a really cool video. I love the letter of that song.

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  6. There are many people who I no longer talk to anymore and it is very sad but at the same time sometimes its for the best.

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  7. Sometimes it's best to stop talking. It helps with healing!

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  8. I love that song, its so simple yet so deep

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  9. I love that song, its so simple yet so deep

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  10. That is an interesting video. And the lyrics make you think.

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  11. I love this song and video. I think this is a universal problem in all relationships. The key is to hang on and know a new season is around the corner :)

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  12. I have several friends that just used me. It hurts but makes you more aware the next time {hopefully},

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  13. This is a great song. Some Men find it easier to just walk away and not fight for your relationship.

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  14. So much thought and emotion in those words. Very relatable to a lot of us!

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  15. I can totally relate to some of the reasons you stated here! It's really heartbreaking but these are also lessons learned and they all made us stronger in the end.

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  16. It's very sad when this happens, but people come in and out of your life for a reason.

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  17. Everyone has a purpose in our lives. Some become a blessing and some become a lesson but they always have a purpose.

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  18. It certainly is full of interpretation. I'd say there's always a chance that both sides have to do something instead of just a one-way road.

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  19. Sometimes cutting the ties is the best decision ever.

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  20. What a powerful video. Definitely a hard time and sometimes we have to make those decisions.

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