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When I meet a new guy, one of the things they would always  ask when I say that I'm chubby is how much do I weight or vital stats. It's a bit degrading and slightly amusing coz its so obnoxious and I never give an answer. I don't answer it partly because they don't deserve it and partly because I'm kinda ashamed that I weight so much.

Watching GLEE (yes, it affects me that much, but in a good way) I realize that I really shouldn't be ashamed. First off, God gave me a pretty face. Second, I have brains that work very well. Third, I have the most AWESOME family and friends. Most important, I have a kid who needs me and who thinks the world of me. So what if I weight 165lbs. I can lose that if I want to. So what if I have big arms and thunder thighs? Guys still ask me out. I have a great personality though sometimes I can be a bitch but overall, I'm fabulous the way I am.



I was born this way. Deal with it.

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17 comments:

  1. I so agree about that number thing. I don't weigh myself as I am not a number. You look just fine to me.

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  2. Chubby? Seriously, you do not look chubby!

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  3. I stopped caring about my weight a long time ago. The goal is to just enjoy, have fun, and love myself. Guys who ask how much you weigh do not deserve you. I love the confidence, please don't lose it!

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  4. That's a nice reminder in your weight scale. Size is just a size, so what right? Thanks for sharing this amazing post!

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  5. I completely agree! I have been the same all my life, I struggled with my weight, but I'm smart, independent, and I achieve my goals! I think that's pretty good!

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  6. Men can be so dumb sometimes, if they actually ask you about weight just leave ;), You are indeed fabulous! keep it up girl!

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  7. God that is so rude and so insensitive of them to ask. Sorry to hear that.

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  8. We're more than numbers! I love your post!

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  9. I dont think I have ever had anyone ask my weight but I dont think I would answer it either.

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  10. I agree with you! I don't really care about weight, stop stressing about our body

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  11. You look fine to me, don't care what others think as long as you are happy!

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  12. You look amazing. I get quite the opposite spectrum. People want to know how I can only weigh 102 pounds. What is wrong with me? Nothing. I'm healthy. So are you. It's just a number :)

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  13. I think you look just gorgeous, never mind when someone ask about your weight. I am almost like you & I really don't care about my weight at all & make sure I stay positive all the way.

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  14. I can't believe anyone would say that! Good for you for standing up for yourself!

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  15. I really love this post and right you are the most important than the numbers, you are not chubby you looks good

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  16. Stay Fabulous n love All your curves! You look great n totally agree with your thoughts.

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  17. I wish I could have that outlook. I weigh myself at least 5 times a day. It creates the worst body image issues but I have been doing it since middle school.

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