When I meet a new guy, one of the things they would always ask when I say that I'm chubby is how much do I weight or vital stats. It's a bit degrading and slightly amusing coz its so obnoxious and I never give an answer. I don't answer it partly because they don't deserve it and partly because I'm kinda ashamed that I weight so much.
Watching GLEE (yes, it affects me that much, but in a good way) I realize that I really shouldn't be ashamed. First off, God gave me a pretty face. Second, I have brains that work very well. Third, I have the most AWESOME family and friends. Most important, I have a kid who needs me and who thinks the world of me. So what if I weight 165lbs. I can lose that if I want to. So what if I have big arms and thunder thighs? Guys still ask me out. I have a great personality though sometimes I can be a bitch but overall, I'm fabulous the way I am.
I was born this way. Deal with it.